Dolores Schafer has
come to feel very close to Mary, the mother of Jesus, over
the past year. It was a year ago in October when she came
to know Mary’s loving care in a special way while the
Pilgrim Madonna statue was staying in their home.
In Springfield,
Ohio, the Schafers’ son and daughter-in-law, Daniel and
Dawn, were experiencing a difficult time with Dawn’s
pregnancy. She was hospitalized and delivered twins at 25
months’ gestation, almost 11 weeks early. Doctors did not
expect the tiny babies, Noah and Kylie, to survive.
As Dolores and Paul
prepared to rush to the neonatal intensive care unit in
Dayton, Dolores was thinking about the Madonna, and about
how much comfort and protection she has felt while having
the Pilgrim Madonna in her home. She prayed for Mary’s
intercession.
"Our Lady cares
about babies," Dolores said. Also, the Schafers left a
note in Sacred Heart’s Chapel of Divine Mercy, asking
those who pray there to remember the twins in prayers
before the Blessed Sacrament.
The Pilgrim Madonna
program was begun about 15 years ago in Sacred Heart
Parish, by Tom and Trudy Porter. At the time, there was
just one statue of Mary that was moved periodically from
home to home. Having the statue in the home helped remind
people of the love and comfort that the Blessed Mother
offers in both times of joy and times of trouble.
"At the beginning,
there was just one statue," said David Houk who, with his
wife Norma, is one of the people who helps organize the
moving of the statue from home to home. "The response was
so good that a second statue was added."
The Houks became
involved with the Pilgrim Madonna because, he said, "We
thought this would be a good ministry for us, and we have
been doing it for about 12 years. We also were able to
start ht e program with another statue in the Seville
Mission." A couple of years ago, Tom and Lucy HIrschinger
became active and joined in the ministry.
A sign-up book is
kept in the Chapel of the Divine Mercy, where people may
sign up to have the Madonna visit their home for a full
week. "It’s a wonderful way for families to come together
to pray and say a daily Rosary before the Blessed Mother,"
David said. "We have many people tell us that she seems to
come to their homes whenever there is some special need."
For the Schafers,
the premature birth of the twins was a crisis. The baby
girl, Kylie, almost died three times during her three
months in neonatal intensive care, Dolores related. All
during that time, she said, "Our Lady was in our house. I
truly believe Mary’s intercession saved their lives. They
were miracle babies." Dolores is grateful to all who
prayed for the babies to get well. "This parish prayed!"
she said.
Today, Noah and
Kylie are a year old, and beautiful, lively children. The
Pilgrim Madonna statue recently returned to the Schafers’
home, and Dolores placed a birthday balloon and flowers
next to it — to include Mary in the celebration.