When you think of
Jim Carrey movies, you usually think of The Mask, The
Grinch, or even that all-time tops intellectual movie,
Dumb and Dumber. Carry's most recent offering
entitled, Bruce Almighty is different from the above films
in several ways.
First of all, it
deals with two important things we search for our whole
lives: Happiness and Love.
In the film, Bruce
is given divine power for a brief time. Initially, he
believes that having such power will now bring him
happiness, and on the surface, this newfound power does
appear to bring satisfaction and happiness. However, the
power is used only for Bruce’s own selfish ambitions, and
the results are awful.
Next Bruce tries to
use his power to find love. Here again, his search for
love is mainly selfish, and that power that he has is used
in a self-serving manner and the results, as with the
previous search for happiness are again disastrous.
Outside of the movie
in our real lives, we are like Bruce, engaged in a
constant search for happiness and love. We were led to
believe that these two things could simply be bought or
won. As we see over and over, this is an illusion.
We may wrongly
believe, for example, that happiness and love might be
brought about if only the people in our lives would change
for our benefit — or if only they would care for us a
little (or a lot) more. This sort of demanding and magical
thinking also is doomed to failure.
When we accept the
fact that happiness and love are a result of our sacrifice
in giving to others, we will be closer to the truth. By
working on the relationships with deeds and not just
words, we draw closer to these elusive values of love and
happiness. As Bruce finds out in the film, it is in giving
that we receive these things.
Dr. Phil Scozzaro
is a psychologist employed by Blick Clinic, Inc. He is an
ad hoc faculty member of the University of Akron. E-mail
phil2@mbusa.net .